This you did cause you couldn't afford to buy it. The alternative would have been not listening to it at all. You bought as many records you could afford, starting with your favourite artists. Then you taped the ones that you liked, but didn't like enough to buy (or just plain couldn't afford it). However, since you had that record on tape you listened to it. And by the time that artist released a new album they had become a favourite enough to buy that next album or go to their show. This is sort of a musical equivalent of lending someone a book to read. And I believe it's kinda healthy for all parts.
People can only afford so many records a month.
Seeing every illegal download as a lost sale is very very unrealistic. As for the most part the alternative would be that they didn't buy it and/or didn't listen to it.
Where it has gone wrong is obviously the sheer amount and easy access to it. And most importantly: the attitude towards it. That more and more people don't even see anything wrong with downloading music, films and applications. That is the part to worry about.
I'm all for the deconstruction of the internet. It wastes more time than it helps, I think!
