Don't forget the passion!
Who could forget the palpable sense of frustration Fernando oozed in those heady days? He wanted...
needed to know many things. He had deadlines and appeared to be under some sort of pressure to up the sound quality of his work; a combination of commercial competition and self-imposed pressure, I suspect.
... and then there was the time his girlfriend had him boiling to the point of bursting. I'll not forget that.
In those early days, when I thought of Fernando, I thought of passion. Latin passion. It's not my place to pass judgement on folks' personal growth rates, but I've not been able to help noticing that our 'Nando has come a long way, at least from where I sit (upside down, Down Under on a pile of rotten banana skins).
FMiguelez wrote:Members like
Phil O, Frodo, Shooshie, HCMarkus, James Steele, Monkey Man, MIDI Life Crisis (even though he was mean to me once
), will always have my gratitude for helping me with my newbie questions when I joined this forum.
You know, Fernando, you'll always occupy a special place in my heart not just for who you are now, but because of an occasion many years ago when you thanked me, referring back to, I think, one of your very first posts two or three years prior to that, for being the first to patiently help you through an issue. I've no idea what it was - maybe your banana skins weren't ripening your avocados quickly enough or your iguana had an upset stomach and you needed a clean-up crew, but either way, I'll not forget the heart-felt gratitude you showed me.
As we all know, one doesn't give to receive; one gives because the act of doing so is somehow cathartic, uplifting, liberating, empowering and, for me at least, indescribably beneficial. The fact that on occasion true appreciation is expressed is, for me at least, akin to a very thick layer of icing's being applied to a cake I've always been more than happy to eat "plain"... with perhaps a little cream for moisture(!).
FMiguelez wrote:I'm sorry the OP won´t be able to say the same thing or have such nice experience here, like I did
Who knows, if he / she returns at any point from now on, the thread should look a whole lot more friendly and understanding than it might have otherwise.
BKK-OZ wrote:I guess I am just making an appeal to the better angels of our nature.
Instead of telling the OP that it was a dumb question, I would suggest a more generous and helpful reply, more along the lines of '...it looks to me like you are just starting out, here are some primary reference materials you ought to check out...' and/or '...here is a link to some basic terminology that might help you frame your questions better...'.
It is pretty easy to make someone else look/feel dumb.
It takes much more grace/skill/intelligence/compassion to help someone out.
I am just as 'guilty' as anyone for being dismissive and not suffering fools gladly. I want to change that, because the people I admire the most are the ones who can share their knowledge and experience with grace and kindness.
And I agree, the OP probably was trolling.
So what? When you let someone else' actions determine yours and you stoop to their level, they have succeeded in their negative, hurtful endeavor. If, however, you rise above, well... you rise above.
For a moment there I thought I was listening to my own heart.
Then I thought you were channeling it with some new-fangled device.
Finally it dawned on me that you're indeed a legend, BK.
OK, now that all this sop's out of the way, let's have a group hug and sing kumbaya!