
Second, I'd kill to have an old guru to shadow every day as I learn this stuff....
Ok, done venting.
I have a project with a standard definition movie loaded (hour and a half, ~260MB), 2 Sequences, 1 v-rack, and 1 Song comprised of the 2 sequences. I don't have that many tracks and plug-ins yet since I just started the movie. DP crashes when I try to either add ProVerb to a track or when I try moving/deleting the EWQL Play insert plug-in. I have 16GB of RAM, and ~45% is being used when I have this project open, which is a lot of usage and probably the cause of the crashes.
No matter what I do, I can't seem to find a workaround to save my project. I've tried starting a new project and loaded each chunk in, starting with just the v-rack. It still uses a ton of RAM and crashes when I try to mess with plugins like ProVerb or East/West plugins.
I guess I could start the project over from scratch, but I'm worried this will just repeat itself. I performed all updates to DP and my plugins in use.
Anything I can do to save my project?
Am I doing something wrong to have all this RAM in use? It doesn't seem like 2 Sequences, a v-rack, and a Song should be killing everything like this...
Here is my v-rack with a sequence:

Computer specs:
Controllers: M-Audio Oxygen61 and Oxygen25
OS: Windows 7 SP1, 64-bit
DAW: DP 9
Interface: Scarlett 2i2 (with passive DI box in front)
Driver: Focusrite USB 2.0 Audio Driver
Processor: Intel Core i5 2500k Quad core @ 3.3Ghz
RAM: 16GB (4x4GB)
Drives: Crucial M4 256GB SSD, Crucial M4 128GB SSD
GPU: 2x NVIDIA GeForce GTX 560 Ti
Motherboard: Asus p8z68-v PRO/GEN3
EDIT: I did submit a Techlink with MOTU as well.